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Is That Some Good V.Y.B?? :D
One simple question :
What do Valsalyabhavan(V), YMCA Poor Boys Home(Y) and Balbhavan(B) have in common??
Besides the fact that they’re all really small centers that MAD works at, well, I’m pretty sure they are different.. Two of these accommodate boys, the other for girls, different managements, different backgrounds, different settings..
Small, they may be, but on the closing weekend of May, the world found out that, no matter how small, or how far away from each other, or how distant from the epicenter of anything you are: Together, you Make A Difference!
Behold, MAD’s first ever mixed camp : The VYB Camp!
I had started thinking of this camp sometime in February.. Yes, February.. Why dint it happen sometime then? Oh well, Sanju, Sumesh, Paul, Aparna, Saju, Jonva, Shahnaz, Varkey and Co (I’m really bad at names, sure I left out quite a few) were not running around then doing the necessary, while I sat around jobless, pretending to be Camp Coordinator while covertly outsourcing all my work!
First Day : Sometime after 7 am..
We’re running behind schedule a bit.. The camp was supposed to begin at 7, but the kids haven’t arrived yet.. I’m apprehensive.. Somewhere inside we all are.. We know that mixing boys and girls at a camp just might backfire.. They might not talk, they might not be themselves in front of each other, given the backgrounds they come from..
Then I see the bus coming, the kids get down, walk towards the venue.. There is an air of suppressed excitement… Behind my back, I cross my fingers, and put on a smile that comes only with a lot of effort.. It’s time to begin the camp..
They come in, they sit down.. Boys separately, girls separately, with an easy ten feet separating the two groups.. My worries multiply within.. Inside my head : “Keep smiling you idiot.. Don’t look like a chicken being taken to the grave..!”
Art of Living has started.. There is not that much noise.. They’re not even looking at each other.. Oh God! This will probably backfire.. Where can I hide where Niki won’t find me for screwing up her precious Placements Project??
Second Day : Sometime after 9 pm..
We’re all standing outside on the ground… The bus is going to be a bit late, so we sit here and there.. I look around, I see my boys; Aparna’s boys; the Valsalyabhavan girls.. And I see the camp has worked.. They are talking to each other, having fun, enjoying each other’s company.. Yeah, take that Niki.. !!
My boys ask me to sing a song, I attempt singing ‘Thank You For Loving Me’.. Invariably I screw it up, and end up with a rendering that’s somewhere between an old floorboard in a haunted house that creaks very loudly and the sound that my bike brakes make when it rains.. But, nobody seems to mind, nor do I! Everybody is in too good a mood…
Man, is this awesomeness or what?? THIS, that moment, IS the V.Y.B Camp… We did it!! Woooohhoooooo!!!
TOP TEN REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD REGRET MISSING V.Y.B
1. It was one good vibe.
2. The balloon kid and her ability to blow a balloon every five mins
3. Jr, all decked up.
4. How the jaws of a certain NUALS volunteer dropped when girls from chinmaya walked in
5. Your favourite scribe and her fraternal twin
6. Screening of Polly’s dance and his experiences on dropping a year to realize he wants to be a bar dancer
7. Our mentors vying it out with each other more than the kids
8. Pooja’s innovative clean-your-surrounding-quickest-and-gain-maximum-points game
9. Our kids’ smile
10 Our volunteer’s smile
V.Y.B – Day 2
Lessons in teamwork and leadership well learned. Both our kids and volunteers were looking forward to another eventful yet educative day. The art of living session by Ms Sudha saw our kids as enthusiastic as on day1. Many of them in fact vowed to make time for yoga as a part of their daily routine.
Post breakfast saw all us inspired to do more in life, to do that something which will make a difference. Mr Joby Mathew, an orthopedically challenged arm wrestler lacks two legs, yet he won the gold medal at the 29th world arm wrestling championship. A motivational session by him, made many an eye moist upon hearing how he overcame obstacles to do big in life. Narratives on how he had to jump in through the window to get inside bus and swim six rivers to go to school made must of us feel ashamed about under using our potential.
The theatre workshop by Ms Radhika and Mr Anilraj focused on building trust and getting to know each other. The game where kids where made to pass the ball by calling out the name of another person made sure that they knew each other well. Building of trust was taught by two innovative games. In one of the games, kids divided into groups were made to stand in circles. One of them was asked to drop himself into the centre relying on the rest of them to support him. Though initially apprehensive, the kids dropped freely as the game progressed. The other game involved forming a huge circle. Two kids were designated Director and asst Director. A few kids were blind folded in the centre of the circle. They had to use the directions given by the director time and again and form a circle withing circle. Talk about trust!!

Career guidance session by eminent educationist and retd IAS officer Alphonse Kannamthanam proved to be an a informative one for the older ones. They sat engrossed and sometimes overwhelmed at the choices they had ahead of them in life. The younger were busy making the cards for the donors.

A Consolidation and Reflection session by Commodore Vishwanathan had kids coming up and telling us what they learned and what they would definitely take back at the end of the camp. Most satisfying part of the day indeed. Kids were all high listening to Commodore talk about rough seas, high tides and the exciting life Indian navy offers
The closing ceremony had eminent guests, donors and patrons visiting us.
MAD’s Got Talent a 300 point competition between the 4 teams saw some of the best talents over. In this 7 minute game, every member of the team had to show some talent on the stage for 6 minutes and the team on the whole had to do an impromptu group dance at the 7th minute. Somersaults, radio jockeys, bodybuilding shows. Our kids are the best.


Rainbow took home the “van bumper sammanam”. Too bad it wasn’t a maruti car. while the rest of us danced away to glory
[ I couldn’t resist using that one]
Two real good days of fun, learning and experience for both our kids and us…
V.Y.B – Day 1
Our VYBrant Valtsalya Bhawan, YMCA, Balbhavan camp began with some mopping of water that refused to dry up [ Courtesy: our dear Jr chetan and team who washed the floors the previous night], fixing the sound system, and distributing t shirts on the 29th of May at Chinmaya Vidyala. As our volunteers streamed in and mats were laid on the floor, Our wonderful kids arrived escorted by their dearest MADdest chechis and chetans.
The Art of Living session by Ms Sudha saw our kids writhing into serpentine and stiffening into feline poses interspersed with grins and giggles, while, our hungry volunteers were seen smelling around and drooling over the appam and stew to be given out for breakfast. By the end of the session our kids and volunteers had learned a lot from some quick yoga to meditation to the importance of self and were already yearning for the day2 session. In fact even this scribe of yours who loathed yoga thanks to the one-hour-a-day-compulsory-classes-at-school was seen contemplating on making it part of her daily schedule.


Post breakfast, our one and only Sr
took over. Divided into four groups and assigned mentors our kids were soon seen shedding their inhibitions and mingling with each other. Rainbow, Check9, Galaxy and 9stars started vying with each other for the “van bumper sammanam” (grand prize) to be given out at the closing ceremony next day.
MAD pentathlon comprising of passing the parcel, bombing the city, decking your favourite teammate with some real good accessories, blowing the maximum number of balloons, and bursting the maximum too had both the volunteers and kids going MAD. The victim for the demo of decking-your-favourite-teammate-with-some-real-good-accessories was Jr. to quote Sr, “da this is the revenge for all that all you write on the blog”. Oops!! Readers please do pray that this favourite scribe of yours never is victimized for all that this pen, I mean keyboard, is yet to write.
Next session had Usha Uthup crooning a lot of her popular numbers and the kids and volunteers alike doing a jig. A certain male volunteer from NUALS busy going gaga over the girls, from chinmaya vidyala who came to catch a glimpse of star, was an exception though.[ mail me for more details!!!].


Half way through it and in walked Ranjini Haridas of the Idea Star Singer fame. After a good round [I mean literally, all steps were being done in circles;)] of dancing our kids settled down for a personality development session were the kids divided into pairs was asked to collect as much info as possible about their partner and to introduce their partner on stage.
It was a very satisfying experience to see our kids open up to other kids of the opposite gender in spite of coming from girls only/ boys only schools. The what-happens-when-you-entangle-a group-of-kids-and-try-disentangle-them experiment on her guinea pigs that followed did give some fruitful results and wholesome fun.


Post lunch (yummmm!!!!) was the confidence building and self esteem session by Priyanka Idicula and her sister, our very own MAD volunteer, Rohini. Each group was allotted a state and made to make the outline of it on a cardboard and also represent its relief features using various kinds of dal and newspapers. They were also asked to find out some important information about the state and were quizzed on it later . Another activity involved tying up as many paper bags as possible filled up with newspapers onto one of the members of the team. Both activities concentrated on developing team spirit and confidence in the kids.
In the public speaking session by Mr. Sooraj, a renowned trainer from ‘Career Dot Com’ the kids not just learned the ten important tips for a good speaker but also came forward overcoming their stage fright and delivering some real good speeches. Indeed a proud moment for us at MAD.
Mr Stefan from Geojit BNP Paribas, a beloved donor of ours paid a visit to the camp. While our kids were impressed with the heavily accented “ente peru Stefan” by a live German in flesh and blood
, the guest felt all the more impressed with some really good questions like, “what does India stand to gain in case of German-Indian ties”. The non acceptance by the kid of a diplomatic answer by Stefan got all of us feel so good. Our kids are smart!! Any doubts??
Dance and Body Movements session was taken by Ms. Radhika, a talented dancer trained at the prestigious Shiamak Dawar Institute of Performing Arts. The purpose of this session was to remove the inhibitions that the children have of the stage, of moving freely, and of being in the lime light. The paper dance in which each pair was given a sheet of newspaper and made to dance on it by folding it as small as possible in each stage saw some winners and some cheaters
[ mail me for more info]. Everybody, kids and volunteers learned the steps to desi girl. Must have looked like one MAD MAD world to the school watchman.
Dinner and all of us were done for the day. With promises of a fun filled day kept yet miles to go before we sleep (thanks to sumesh 4 the taxi), we bid goodbyes. Hearts yearning, Clocks waiting to tick seven.



























